Understanding Client Mistakes and the Difficulty or Reluctance to Change: A Letter and Guideline for Fellow Counsellors
Dear Fellow Counsellors, In our counselling rooms, we often meet clients who desire to change but remain stuck in old habits. These aren’t signs of laziness or failure—they’re reflections of how the brain clings to what is known, even when it hurts. Over time, I’ve come to see resistance not as an obstacle but